Originally Posted by
Stayingsassy 
I simply don’t drink at all, and that informs my life wherever I go.
That is a great way to look at things Sassy. Having said that, i suggest you go back and re-read your original post in this thread. I could be wrong, but I sensed a lot of "questioning" going on in your mind during the incident. For example, you said that you "didn't really want the wine". If you simply don't drink at all, why might that thought even cross your mind do you think? It's a rhetorical question that i'd suggest you think about.
Not so long ago you wrote the following too...sometimes it's good to take a look back and make sure we remember why we are here in the first place
"Don't ever take your sobriety for granted. I don't care if you only have two days. That two days can be the start of the rest of your wonderful life...and if its not wonderful now it has the POTENTIAL to be without that ******** poison in your life."