Originally Posted by
trailmix 
So that's my take on it. I can see you aren't going to just let this go, so why are you waiting? You have a, somewhat, different perspective now, maybe you should go and see her and talk to her.
I said something similar a couple of days ago.
GGJ you appear to be going round and round. Perhaps if you do see her or phone her you will get yourself closer to your own realization that this "thing" you have going with her is futile and will destroy you.
Many, many members have shared their ES&H. They have told their own stories about what they did and how it didn't work. How nothing we said or did made any difference. Perhaps GGJ experiencing this for himself is what he needs to do?
I am one of those people who, when I see a sign saying "WET PAINT DON'T TOUCH!", desperately wants, sometimes NEEDS, to touch the paint just to make sure it's wet. I've ruined a couple of painstaking paint jobs due to this ridiculous compulsion.
GGJ you are an adult. If you need to see for yourself then go and see for yourself.