Give it some time. You may irritate your husband as much as he does you. Just speculating.
The only thing that's changed in your relationship is everything.
I hope you can learn acceptance and tolerance. And I hope things level out and you find a new you and a new husband who you except and love as he is. Sober.
Hope this makes sense.[/QUOTE]
Ghostlight, that makes total sense. I was so busy focusing on what I was going through, I didn't even think about how the new me was affecting him. You're right. EVERYTHING has changed. You guys are the wake up call I needed. I am relearning how to relate to the world. I am glad I didn't waste anymore time, because half my life was spent in a haze. No wonder he seemed great. Now I have to see the good in him with clarity. Maybe even cut him some slack...