Originally Posted by
atalose Look how hard it is for you to change, you left but went right back, now imagine how hard it is for him to change his drinking.
It takes dedication and commitment to change, a real desire then lots of actions to insure that happens.
Rules or boundaries? Do you think he would actually follow a “rule” of no hiding cans/bottles? Or do you think you would actually set a boundary that you would x, y or z if you find hidden empties?
What's the difference in boundaries and rules?