Well, I wouldn't paint everybody with such a wide brush.
After all I changed 4 1/2 years ago and haven't had a drink since then. Alcoholics can't"moderate". He needs to stop completely or not at all.
I'll bet he was drinking heavy even when it seemed like one or two.
I know, I became a closet drinker to look like I was under control for a while.
I hope yoru hubby can get it under control.