Stace...I am giving you the following link to our library of excellent articles on alcoholism and the effects on the loved ones.. I hope that you will read th rough them...there is sooo much to know.....
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...c-reading.html (Classic Reading)
By the way...it isn't your job to look after him...that is his job....
lol...how has that been working, out, anyway..? sounds like he is getting worse, even with you looking out for him....