Speaking of what WE think are 'rock bottoms':
My AW drank too much at an after-work work function, has no idea how she got home, did $3500+ damage to her car, had the deputy sheriff at our house at 11:20 at night because her co-workers couldn't get a hold of her (because she was passed out in the kitchen), it got all the way to the VP of her division, she almost lost her job, and........ she continues to drink like nothing happened.
Any 'reasonable' person would have had some sort of awakening, right? Just shows how illogical and unreasonable addiction is.
Again, I say - you have been handed the lottery on a silver platter by her leaving you to live your life. In time you will say, "That ol' COD guy was spot-on!"