HeartHealth,
I was the first and only one to divorce in my family after 32 yrs of marriage though my 4 sisters marriages are not great by any stretch.
It was hard and after two years is still hard sometimes. He moved on to another woman after 2 months and is still partying hard despite horrible health problems. He is most definitely a garden variety alcoholic. But so effing what! Ive had two years without his super ego, his mental health issues, his medical problems, etc... i never thought i would survive this, but i have. I am happier and healtbier than ive been in decades. Its crazy how much energy i have. I wish you strength with whatever path you take