Agree with this. This happens to me a lot, particularly since my A made me doubt myself all the time. Stay angry. Anger is self-protective.
Originally Posted by
dandylion 
hearthealth.....I hope you can keep the angry going....lol. It is easier to be motivated while angry, sometimes....and then, when the anger settles down, one can begin to do self-doubt, all over again. one must guard against that....
I think it is good to write a list of everything in the relationship, that you can think of, that is bad in the relationship.......then, read it every time you start going to self-doubt......even if it is once, every hour!