Thankfully not many on this site would say, "screw it, do what ya wanna do" . I'm a chronic relapser all the way. If it were as simple as taking someones advice then that would be fricken magic...You: "Just don't drink/use. " Me: "O.K. Wow I never knew it was that easy."
Right, doesn't work that way. But I do get where you are coming from. Like Dee says focus on your own 'garden'. If us chronic relapsers bother you just keep scrolling. Peace!