Me, I am on disablity, and I have medical problems, and I have to have him to help with bills, or I will lose everthing and he knows that.
*sigh* I am in precisely the same boat right now with 3 kids. I am currently plotting my escape. I'm hoping the end is near. Keep coming back. There is some good support here. Don't get in the car with him again if you want to live.