Thanks Squiz. That's helpful. I'll try and find that thread.
I don't have the option of putting all alcohol out of temptation's way (I run a business that has a bar) so I'm not really worried about the little amount that might be at home. My workplace is really what tests me daily. If I can get through that I am ok if there is a beer or two belonging to my partner in the fridge at home.
Having said that though, a friend left half a bottle of white wine at my house, which is my at-home-DOC. I tried to get her to take it with her and out of politeness she wouldn't. I threw it out as that would definitely be calling me.