That is the tricky part
I know he has to follow the recovery plan, for one. BUT I also know I cannot have a person under the influence in the home with me and the kids....the question is how to get him out of our home if he is high as he would have no business driving (not even sure what I could convince him to do if under the influence).
I know we can change the code to the locks pretty easily if we can get him out of the house...did that recently.