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fml23 You're so right, it's almost scary. This is not a crisis, it's been a long time coming and I've been clear about my plan and priorities the whole time. And the case manager at the rehab isn't good at her job if she thinks he needs me roped in to his treatment. Red flag was when she said she had, 'serious concerns about him leaving rehab for an empty home.' Right. Pretty sure his situation is not that unique... also none of the steps I've taken for myself hinged on his actuons. I don't sit around and say, 'I can't go to school until he stops drinking.' Nope. I just did it. If he wants to be sober he will be.
I literally want to frame this post and put it on my wall. Just Yes! to all of this.