Originally Posted by
fml23 
'maybe I want to stay separated for a year and see how he maintains sobriety' and then the other voice that says, 'another year?!? Get a life!' I dunno. I'm just surprised at how awful this is. I always thought rehab would be the end game.
FML - Congratulations on the wonderful steps you've taken to take care of yourself and your daughter well done.
I just want to share with you that I filed for divorce from my STBXAH a year ago....and we are still technically married and it will be another 60 days before I can even ask the judge for trial dates to help end it. So should you decide to go through with the divorce, I want you to know that it is a LONG process, especially longer with children involved.
I think everything your feeling is totally valid. Like they say, one day at a time. Sending you hugs and prayers for strength.