First, never forgetting that everything I value in my life today is built on the foundation of my sobriety - therefore, when push comes to shove, I must take care of my sobriety above all else.
As to the "all else," balance. There are only so many hours in a day, and my tank is not bottomless - I try to only take on what I can truly handle, and keep those things in balance: my marriage, my job, my physical and emotional well being, my sponsees, family, and friends.