Hi.
I feel badly for you bc you clearly are interested in her but my advice to you is to run. She's new in recovery. She has a ton if options for support with people who understand her disease and she really needs to focus on sobriety right now.
In time, you will get over her and find someone meant for you.
I honestly do not think that I could date someone who is not an alcoholic or addict at this point. No one quite understands me like my people. And I don't need to be around people who can recreationally drinking or take a toke or two. Horrible idea for someone like me.
This is probably not what you want to hear, but it's very honest and sincerely in both of your best interest.
GL,
Jules