Thanks everyone. I'm so glad I found this thread!
I can't make a meeting today but I do have therapy so that will help. I'm feeling a bit better about things today.
SoberBlondie - I'm sure I would have had a similar reaction if I posted that on FB. It seems like one would understand how defensive they look by protesting sobriety. Sorry you had to go through that. I really don't talk about sobriety outside of the recovery community for this reason other than to say I don't drink when offered. Maybe that's not ideal, but it's my plan for the time being.
The recent studies on women and drinking are very interesting. If I had a $1 for every time I heard a soccer mom ask "is it too early for wine?"