Congratulations on 4 days! That 1st week is really tough, but you're almost there
Originally Posted by
Garfield71 
The brewery does have good food, and the kids love the homemade root beer.
I feel like this sentence is an attempt to justify what your husband said. I am quite sure your kids would prefer a sober, happy mom over good root beer, so don't feel guilty for changing up the routine a bit.
Your sobriety is your responsibility. Support from our closest loved ones definitely help, but if it isn't provided that doesn't mean we give up. I hope your husband comes to terms with your decision and stops shaming you as that is something you don't need or deserve.