reads like it would be wise to learn some communication skills,DR.
youd love to punch them in the face sometimes-those are the words of an adolescent.
you dont like the demeaning, yet throw it right back with," "one day,maybe soon...LIFE is going to punch you square in the face. If you keep walking around like this world 'OWES' you something you're a fool!"
think about it- who is allowing your daughter to act that way? who is allowing her to live under your roof, drive your car, and who is giving her money from time to time?
and yet ya call your own daughter a fool????????
DR, it might be wise to have a sit down with your daughter- when your calm- and admit how to speak to her isnt right. let her know you love her and its time for you to make some changes.
then set boundaries.