It's tough in early sobriety. Everything was reason for me to cry, I remember that very clearly. That part will get better. You will be able to control your emotions with continuous sober time. In the meantime, lots of stuff is uncomfortable. I wanted to crawl out of my own skin more than once.
Make it through the day without drinking, that's all that matters. It doesn't have to be graceful.
The thing with your husband will come to a head at some point but now's not the time. Wait till you're stronger.
At the brewery - you can either not go, not go in (sit in the car and read etc.) or go in, have iced tea and a big burger and enjoy everyones' company (and a delicious burger.) Your husband has his own agenda and it doesn't match yours yet. You can still stay sober, regardless.