Hi sweet..yes looking on this as a blessing to finally get sober is absolutely the right way to look at this.I dont mean to seem harsh hun,but thats not a friend! For 1 a friend wouldnt hurt u with nasty words..2 a friend wouldnt dream of deliberately dirtying your floor while watching you clean it (id have done more than dong him on the head with that mop) and 3 any good decent friend would have respected you when you said you wanted some time alone to deal with things,and not gone off in a mood then ended his friendship with you! Dont let him do this to you anymore hun you deserve so much more x