P.S. Frankly I am worried about what all of this commotion in my family has done to me. I have not had a stroke or heart attack but I have moments when I cannot remember even the first hame of a grandchild who lives nearby. A close friend said today that stress sometimes does this to people. When I get into my car and drive, the dog and I for twenty miles or so on the superhighway, I suddenly feel my head starting to clear and my driving skills sharpen immensely even in a minute or so. My doctor says I should do this and get away by myself more often and I think this is good advice. I can focus on "Easy does it!", "One thing at a time!", "Live in the 'Now'". Such things are not new but have been known for well over 2,000 years.