Maybe reread / read the links on the hread about making a plan. I won't bore you about my personal solution again, because that's obviously not a route that appeals to you. Recovery is all about learning how to Do Life Sober. That takes a while for everyone. Sometimes it feels like it is taking forever. But if you keep working on it then it will start to happen for you as well.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...y-plans-1.html
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