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Hang in there, you are doing good, I agree with the others on the trip just a bad thing waiting to happen. My fiances parents house is the ultimate of chaos, I would always say to him when he was out, how can you stand this everyday it drives me nuts!!! He always thought it was normal, until now thank god, he refers to it now as the soap opera and says I cant believe I always thought the way we lived and interacted was "normal". I guess I cant say what is "normal" but chaos day in and day out I couldnt handle it I always just wanted to escape to my own home where it was quiet and he always wanted to be where the "drama" was. He hears alot about it in letters from the family and says So I see nothing has changed around there, I dont want that drama in my life when I come home, As much as I love my family I am going to have to keep myself away from that!