I have so many years dealing with alcoholic parents - as a child, a mom & now as a grandmother raising a granddaughter . . .
For me it is a day by day decision compromise and boundary setting
We've reached the age now of 13 that our granddaughter has a lot of ability to voice her wants. She knows about her Dads struggles & has been raised in a home that loves regardless of people's less that desirable traits or problems.
So today we may see him & tomorrow we may choose not to.
As for SR burnout - I truly felt that for a while. I took a break & focused on what was healthy for me.
I feel refreshed & ready to come back, read & share my e,s, & h when I feel I have something positive to contribute
Wishing each of you a happy joyous & free journey.
Pink hugs