Hey Kksgal!
Glad you are here. I will turn 41 soon and spending my second bday in a row sober is amazing (I just passed 17 mo sober).
You already see so much that is different and better in your life (and it's wonderful that you have a supportive husband- my fiance is one of my bedrocks). Are you working a program? Now seems like a good time to add another level to your sobriety. For me, it's a dedication to AA, for others it's different (SMART, AVRT, etc) - and the common thing we all find is that a program of action, to do every day and that gives us tools and answers and new ways of thinking is key.
Best to you in sobriety- hope to see you post more!