Thanks for replying and for all the advice everyone. You've definitely given me something to think about.
I was a bit drunk when I wrote that first post and I am a little bit embarrassed about it. (It was all 100% true but I would maybe have censored it a bit more had I not been drinking.)
Now, if possible and if I can work out how, I will delete my account and that post.
So thanks but I'm going now.