what is right for me if he keeps coming back.
what is right for you remains REGARDLESS of what he does. you have the power to choose what is right for you. but waiting to see IF he MIGHT come back gives away that power.
2:30am calls on Monday from ex boyfriends mean one thing = drunk dialing. it's also fairly safe to assume you weren't the only call he made.
the best way to end that is to block his number. it isn't mean or cruel, it's just self preservation. it allows you to move on. and it is OK to move on from relationships! it's healthy to learn how to let go and let what was stay WAS. and we don't need to find a replacement right away.