Hi wizzoo - some good advice here.
As long as you think you're getting some benefit from alcohol it's going to be hard to quit, Anatabuse or not.
Alcohol worked for me too - for a while in all kinds of ways...then it didn't.
It tried hard to convince me it was working long after that tho = thats the nature of it.
Like Oona said, everythings better in recovery.
I hope you (and your wife) give yourselves the chance to find that out
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