Maud, I did, too. And my gentleman friend's response was "she is exactly that stupid."
His sister is very nice, and I like her a lot. She obviously has her own issues with drinking. She has a five-year-old daughter, and the fallout of the failure of the relationship with her daughter's father has caused her a lot of grief. My gentleman friend says she used to be much more bubbly and optimistic, and was hard-working and had a great job, but now she is just depressed all the time, settling for jerks, and binge-drinking a couple of times a month. It makes me sad.