Hi Inch,
So sorry about your mother and your husband's diagnosis. It must be very difficult for you.
My husband and I stopped drinking together 105 days ago. It's not the first time we have been sober together, as we've made many attempts in the past. But I can recall the first time we stopped together and I remember it feeling weird.
While my husband has stumbled over the last few months, he hasn't given up completely....so I'm still hopeful. Personally, this time feels different for me. Through therapy, SR and daily prayer, I feel better than I have in years.
I hope that SR is as helpful to you as it has been for me.
Congratulations on 16 days!