My apologies for not posting as much but it's been a busy week.
The bottom line for me, and has been for ten years is that drinking made my life crap.
Not drinking has made it immeasurably better.
Every drink is a vote for the crappy status quo and no change.
If your lifes not immeasurably better yet guys, maybe you've not been working on this for long enough yet.
Thats not a put down or me puffing up my chest - it took me at least 3 months to start thinking out from under the dark cloud drinking had me under for 20 years, and probably another 2 or 3 to trust that new perspective, and then the part about building a sober life I love and didn't want to run away from started...
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