Note, I am not a big drinker. I can and might like to enjoy a glass of wine with dinner a few times a month. I have thought that us sharing a bottle of wine is nice, but I realize that it's not really a shared experience. I suggested a few weekends ago that we have some fun drinks together when the weather was very nice outside, but he ended up getting a mix of something for me and then his own bottles of liquor for him. Not what I suggested. I need to give up the idea that we'll be able to have a simple glass of wine together because he probably can't handle it. That's too bad. We will probably then not be able to go out to restaurants, and not do a lot of things that are near alcohol. How does that happen? Alcohol is everywhere. We are going to his parents' house today for Mothers Day, and he will want to drink there. We have a family wedding coming up too. It's near impossible to imagine him not drinking at these things.