I know it's hard, and that it hurts. However, if he wants out of the marriage you have no choice. I would say for your own sanity, and for your child, do it while he is treating you respectfully, it's so much better than having to fight out every details and be treated in a horrible manner.
I am sorry.
Originally Posted by
idunnowhat 
I guess the part I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around is after working for months on trying to fix the relationship to find out that he'd been lying and still actively drinking, all the time we spent was meaningless. And after being lied to for so long I'm not sure what to believe anymore.