Hi Doug. I recommend that you consider posting this on the Friends & Family board and see what others with similar experience have to say. I guess what I would say is that you need to look out for your health, welfare and happiness first. It's hard to be happy living with an active alcoholic. You also might want to consider whether, by simply ignoring this, you are enabling your wife's addiction. The F&F forum or a group such as Al Anon have some good resources for you.
I'm sorry you have to deal with this. It's tough enough to handle your own addiction; seems almost cruel that you also have to address, even if it is by ignoring it, your spouse's addiction as well. Hang in there. You have my support.