Thank you! I will say there has been some excellent advice I've read over the years, and I followed most of it and it really helped me.
The worst part of living with an alcoholic is the isolation. You just don't have any friends especially if your not into the drinking part of it. I have nothing against having a drink occasionally but you sure get ostracized for not partying. Good luck trying to find someone Who wants to go out for coffee!
I live in the country, but close to small to big cities. So I have the best of both worlds.
I haven't seen many posters whose spouses are retired military or military so I'd like to shine the light on that aspect. It seems its quite taboo to discuss that in military towns.