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Old 04-12-2017, 05:58 PM
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Dee74
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Tell me that now amount of vitamins, therapy and medications can make me not be an alcoholic anymore!
Mama I can't tell you that because I don't believe it's true for any of us here.

My surefire test to see if I'm still an alcoholic is -
  1. get healthy feel great
  2. wonder whether I'm really an alcoholic or not
  3. start thinking about a glass, just to see...and completely disregard or willfully forget all the terrible things that led to me seeing help in the first place

I think if my drinking as just a phase the healthy reaction would still be not to drink anymore.

It bought me nothing, it bought catastrophe into my life and relationships, ...and I love myself and my life sober so much more.

If my first thought is to drink again then nothings changed for me - I'm still an alcohlic.

Don't confuse abstinence with control - your life is great because alcohol is no longer in it...not because you've learned control.

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