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Old 04-12-2017, 05:27 PM
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Gottalife
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Originally Posted by Daucuscarota View Post
Sober Day #66

My oldest drinking buddy
(who I had distanced myself from since I quit---it was not a very healthy relationship)
contacted me today ---she is going thru multiple crises and is very angry that I have not been there for her.
I have to figure it out.

I really need to change my whole life, and that means cleaning house in many areas.
But I feel guilty about deserting her. Is it possible to support her from a distance?

Any advice from those further down this road?
"The answers will come if your own house is in order" IME.
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