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CoffeeInstead Congrats on 11 months - almost a full year, that is amazing. Hang in there. The hardest part for me right now is I feel like I lost my best friend. Hopefully I can find something to replace that feeling!!
That's exactly how I feel! I've been told that's completely normal because alcohol was a best friend to many of us. I had it described to me as being like the grieving process - you have lost something very dear to you and it's OK to mourn that. Knowing that helped me very much. I'm still looking for something to replace it with, for me the winter was especially hard because I have a tendency to isolate myself anyway and the bad weather just encourages that.
How long do you have sober, Coffee?