I hope you made it to sleep OK bronzie.
I don't think you need to please everybody else at all but in that context I think that the best thing you can do for yourself and your daughter is to stay sober.
Obviously your relationship with your bf is totally your own business and I understand that things can look a lot different from the inside of a relationship than it does from the outside but it does not sound like your bf is contributing anything positive to your life or your daughters. I suppose he has only been out of jail for a couple of days so perhaps there is still time for him to drop the attitude.