Sometimes...."all you really have is yourself"(and that's okay)..and for me I will add I have God, or the Higher Power, Spirit or whatever you want to call it. It boils down to you...regardless of what anyone else does, no matter how much you love them. It comes back to you and what you are doing....And, for some us, we have our dogs, our guitars, and a good book!! (praise the Lord, smile)