ScaredWife....A good idea to be elsewhere....as he is sure to be angry, if he refuses help. Even if he goes to a rehab facility, and you go back to the house...people can leave rehab, and, he could always show back up...angry...
This is why you should definitely get in touch with a worker at the dv center, and let them guide you in your decision making....Take all the help you can get...
I am curious....since you have been going to a therapist for a year, and you have been married for only 10 months...did the therapist ever ask you about abuse or talk to you about it?