This.
This guy is a danger, liability, and needs to get his sh@t together.
You say you want kids? Imagine having kids with him - he will be no help but impediment. Even if he is sober - you will always be wondering if he is driving your babies around drunk. And he is abusive and violent.
This is in his current state. Alcoholics do recover, most through series of sobriety and relapses.
Where do you want to be in 5 years?
IMO - interventions don't work. He needs to be placed in hands of higher power.
Originally Posted by
NewRomanMan 
Dump this man and run. You are in for a world of pain, chaos and insanity if he is unwilling to quit drinking. Even if he is, he may not embrace full recovery and may wind up being a dry drunk. Anvilhead is right. Leave him now while you still have your sanity. Have your marriage annulled and move on with your life. I cannot stress this enough.