hello and welcome. very sorry for what brings you here.
in order for an intervention to have any chance for success, all parties need to be on board with the actions and consequences they will take IF the alcoholic refuses treatment. it should ONLY be handled by a trained professional, who can remain neutral and unemotional.
you are right. he is not the man you thought you married. he deceived you. he is abusive, psychotic and volatile. while you don't want to hear this i'm sure, you likely have grounds to get the marriage annulled. that may be your only option in order for YOU to have a happy addiction free life. you are in danger of being physically hurt. if you have this intervention, and he says NO, i would NOT go back home with him. he's already punched holes in things and come "dangerously" close to your face. his rage may be uncontrollable.
please give strong consideration to what you are really dealing with here and the level of danger you are in.