Originally Posted by
steve-in-kville 
Yeah, this is most likely a large part of my problem. Gotta figure everything out on my own.
Maybe don't make it any more complicated than it is. I spent a lot of damn time trying to figure it out, and in the end, I couldn't. I had to accept. I don't drink like a normal person, and it harms me, therefore I am one of those who chooses not to drink.