Hello Flyfisher,
I am beginning to realise that trying to do this alone wasn't such a smart idea. I live in a small town where I am a recognisable person as I am very involved with a charity. I have just been voted in as the next President and I would hate for all the gossip to taint what we do but unfortunately it is a very judgmental place. I am going to contact a women's centre in the next town and hope they will advise me. I really appreciate your reply x