You came to the right place Melissa. I'm only a little over a month sober, myself, but I can tell you the first couple weeks are very hard. This is a good place to start out and helps me stay sober. Just keep saying NO to the drink and try to get on this site for support if you are getting a craving! There also a lot of good resources regarding things to do sober to fill up the hrs and how to formulate a game plan for effective sobriety!!!