Originally Posted by
DoubleDragons 
I'll never forget when my son was pledging a fraternity and he said to me that he started looking around the room and he said to himself, "I don't even like half these people." So, he quit. Very proud moment in this codependent mama's heart!
That is a great story, DoubleDragons! I'm so glad your boy had the intelligence to realize the path he was headed down was not right for him and the courage to make a change as soon as he knew that.
How different my life would have been, had I had that kind of self-knowledge and courage in years past--and how different it WILL be since I'm starting to learn those things to use NOW and in the days to come.