Originally Posted by
hearthealth 
Okay 10 hours later and fear is setting in. It's like what am I doing? It must be a trigger me for him to be in the house. He's now home. It's a light day of drinking. Hes only been home 30 minutes and we're not communicating. He doesn't know about the counseling appointment. He will find out after the event?
I may be wrong here, but why even discuss it? You aren't communicating anyways, and in my experience - AH learning of this would cause abusive behavior...or in the very least him attempting to talk you out of going.
Just carry on with your appointments and keep it between your child and you..who are the ones who need the counseling.